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I have been browsing the net, instead of doing my college assignments -as per usual- and once again stumbled upon a fairytale blog that is slowly and surely stealing my gullible heart! Today I decided to share a bit more about me and my likes...cause well this is my blog after all... right? Right.
Now here's something you didn't know... I Love weddings!... not so sure about the marriage itself but the wedding I truly adore! Meeting a fellow human with whom to spend your life seems to be the cherry on the top of our existence. The truth is, where-ever we find ourselves regarding our relationship status is never a reason to stop improving, growing, learning, discovering, dreaming or exploring. It’s not always easy to be vulnerable with common folks because no-one wants to be misunderstood or rejected so in natural essence we tend to keep certain treats to self. But even so, though many times we are disappointed by the ones we love(d) the most , it doesn’t mean we’ll never find the support and unconditional love and acceptance found in a true, nurturing & good relationship. If someone wants to be apart of your life, they'll make an effort to be in it no matter what. Anyway...
Every girl -and a few brothers- visualizes their big day at some stage in her industrious, bittersweet life. Yes, even I have those wedding planner days where I bring it all together in thought; the guest list, the bridesmaids, the colour palette, cuisine, location, centre piece, the dress -Oh yes the dress! The music and guest speakers...You know the crazy rest... As with most things, you might like the idea but are too afraid it may not go down so well with your family, friends and witnesses. I have always loved the idea of an ALL WHITE WEDDING, yes white, Eeeeerythin' WHITE! Something simple, white and intimate, outdoors. Though I have never admired wearing white occasionally, on that day all shall be pure and glorious in that very innocent yet bold colour at a farm with a beautiful mountainous view in the evening by the lake with a man brave enough to say 'I DO' (lol).
Weddings are not marriage and I have learnt the behemothic difference between the two terms through having wonderful and truthful married friends. Marriage is making verb your vows and being the very "perfect" partner and mother/father you would like to have. It's work, mistakes, forgiveness, joy, sadness, self love, integrity, change, growth, wisdom, support, understanding, communication, it's forgetting the day's troubles and remembering the day's blessings, it is unconditional love, it's baby I'm sorry and it's honey you are still my best.
I have put together a few beautiful examples of my kind of wedding {a modern vintage theme} with the white tulips (my favourite flowers), mermaid wedding gown (have to show of my best curves), a simple ring, no veil, flat soft pumps, 4 of my favourite girls as bridesmaids also in white and a lot of chardonnay and champagne with a guest list of 80. This should put your mind at ease and give you confidence to step out in a different fashion to the popular trends we see every Saturday on weddings. Ask yourself, what am I looking forward to? What has you giddy with joy that you feel you can’t contain it? What makes you feel good, excited, expectant. It’s Life. Your life. Do what you want to do with it. It will be your day after all. Work on a reasonable budget to what You can afford and be grateful. Impossible is nothing as long as you're marrying your best friend and crazy in love with each other & strong in your belief.
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| All will be white. |
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| My favourite flowers...a bouquet of white tulips! Class. |
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| Dancing on the tables after this...lol..whoowhooo |
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